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When parents disagree on how to connect with a distant teenager

My teenage daughter and I used to be close but this year she's shut me out completely and every interaction feels like I'm failing some test I don't understand. My husband says to give her space but I feel like I'm losing her and I don't know if that's normal or if I should be fighting harder.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Different parenting instincts are creating confusion about when closeness becomes intrusion and when space becomes abandonment.

Ideas that help explain it
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