My teenage daughter and I used to be really close but since she started high school she barely talks to me, and I know this is normal but I keep trying to connect in ways that worked when she was younger and I can see I'm annoying her, but I don't know how to love her in the way she needs now.
More people experience this than they realize.
The intensity of wanting to maintain connection is preventing the space needed for relationship to naturally transform.
“Where Are You with Grief and regret — what we wish we'd said?”
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