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When longtime friend groups naturally drift apart

My three best friends from college and I used to talk every day but over the past two years we've all gotten busy with different life stages and now our group chat feels forced and our rare hangouts feel like performance. We keep saying we should get together more but nobody wants to acknowledge that we've grown apart.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love between friends must evolve or risk becoming archaeology of who you used to be together.

Ideas that help explain it
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