My two closest friends are going through a messy divorce from each other and they both keep confiding in me about it, and I feel like I'm being torn in half trying to support them both. I'm losing them both because I can't figure out how to love them separately.
More people experience this than they realize.
Being a bridge between people who are breaking apart can leave you feeling responsible for a rupture you cannot heal.
“Where Are You with Cumulative grief — multiple losses?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.