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When friends divorce and put you in the middle

My two closest friends are going through a messy divorce from each other and they both keep confiding in me about it, and I feel like I'm being torn in half trying to support them both. I'm losing them both because I can't figure out how to love them separately.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Being a bridge between people who are breaking apart can leave you feeling responsible for a rupture you cannot heal.

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