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When longtime friendships quietly drift apart

My two closest friends from college and I used to talk every week but over the past year our conversations have gotten shorter and more surface-level, and I think we're all afraid that we've grown apart but nobody wants to be the one to say it out loud.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of naming distance can create more distance between people who still care deeply about each other.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ishq — Sufi divine and human love?”

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