My wife and I are both burned out from work and parenting and we keep snapping at each other over small things because we're both running on empty. We know we need to change something but every conversation about it turns into an argument about who has it harder.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people drowning can't save each other when they're fighting over who needs rescuing first.
“Where Are You with Grief anniversaries and triggering dates?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.