My wife and I are both dealing with job stress right now but we cope in completely opposite ways — I need to talk everything through and she needs space to process — so we end up making each other's stress worse when we're trying to help.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people can love each other perfectly and still offer comfort in the exact language the other cannot receive.
“Where Are You with Love in midlife?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.