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Scenario

When couples turn partnership into competition during stress

My wife and I are both high achievers who used to motivate each other, but now we're both burned out and instead of supporting each other we keep comparing who's more exhausted, who's sacrificing more, who deserves to rest.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The very dynamic that once lifted you both up has become a way of keeping score in a game where you're both losing.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.