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When spouses have different approaches to a family crisis

My wife and I are both struggling with her mom's alcoholism but we cope in opposite ways — I want to set boundaries and she wants to keep trying to help — and it's starting to create distance between us when we need each other most.

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Love can pull two people in opposite directions when they're both trying to protect what matters most.

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