Periagoge
Scenario

When couples become efficient roommates instead of intimate partners

My wife and I are both workaholics and we've created this life where we're incredibly efficient roommates who happen to be married. We coordinate schedules and share responsibilities perfectly, but we haven't had a real conversation in months and we both know it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people have optimized their relationship so well they've optimized the love right out of it.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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