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When couples become efficient roommates instead of intimate partners

My wife and I are both workaholics and we've created this life where we're incredibly efficient roommates who happen to be married. We coordinate schedules and share responsibilities perfectly, but we haven't had a real conversation in months and we both know it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Two people have optimized their relationship so well they've optimized the love right out of it.

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