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When couples feel paralyzed by life-changing decisions

My wife and I are trying to decide whether to have kids and we're both terrified of making the wrong choice but also terrified of not making any choice. Every conversation we have about it feels like we're negotiating the rest of our lives and the stakes feel too high to think clearly.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Some choices feel too enormous for two people to hold, even when they must be made together.

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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.