My wife and I both love our friends but we've realized we have completely different social energy levels and it's causing tension — she thinks I don't make enough effort with people and I feel exhausted by the amount of social time she needs from us as a couple.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who chose each other are discovering that their natural rhythms of connection with the wider world feel mutually exclusive.
“Where Are You with Grief and anger — the rage underneath?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.