Periagoge
Scenario

When couples become efficient strangers in their own relationship

My wife and I both work demanding jobs and we've gotten into this pattern where we're just managing logistics and never actually connecting. We're efficient roommates who occasionally have sex, and we both know it but keep avoiding the conversation.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The machinery of shared life has replaced intimacy without either person choosing the trade-off.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist Brahmaviharas in Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.