My wife and I bought a house in my hometown to be closer to my family, and now she feels isolated and I feel caught between her unhappiness and my family's expectations, and we both regret the decision but don't know how to move forward without someone feeling like they lost.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people made a choice together that created an unequal burden, and now the guilt and resentment are making it impossible to find a solution that honors both of their needs.
“Where Are You with Post-traumatic growth — what can grow in the soil of loss?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.