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Scenario

When parents disagree about helping struggling adult children

My wife and I disagree about how much to help our adult son who keeps making choices that worry us, and we've started undermining each other — she gives him money when I say no, I lecture him when she wants to stay supportive.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love can turn partners into opponents when there are no clear answers about how much help helps and how much hurts.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Loneliness and the Desire for Connection?”

Peri

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