My wife and I have been fighting about money for months and we've both said things we can't take back, but underneath the fighting I think we're both just scared about our future. We can't seem to talk about the fear without it turning into blame.
More people experience this than they realize.
Fear dressed as anger keeps us from the tenderness that might actually address what we're both protecting.
“Where Are You with Narcissistic partners?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.