My wife and I have been married for fifteen years and we're both attracted to the same woman in our social circle, which has opened up conversations about our relationship that feel both terrifying and necessary, and we don't know whether we're discovering something new about ourselves or destroying something precious.
More people experience this than they realize.
Desire is revealing unexplored territories in a long relationship, forcing two people to choose between safety and growth when both matter deeply.
“Where Are You with Grief for lost relationships — ambiguous loss of divorce?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.