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Scenario

When couples navigate unexpected mutual attraction

My wife and I have been married for fifteen years and we're both attracted to the same woman in our social circle, which has opened up conversations about our relationship that feel both terrifying and necessary, and we don't know whether we're discovering something new about ourselves or destroying something precious.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Desire is revealing unexplored territories in a long relationship, forcing two people to choose between safety and growth when both matter deeply.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost relationships — ambiguous loss of divorce?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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