My wife and I have completely different sex drives and we've tried scheduling and talking and compromising but we're both starting to feel resentful — she feels pressured and unwanted when she says no, I feel rejected and like I'm asking for too much — and our 'solutions' aren't actually solving anything.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your different needs around physical intimacy have created a cycle where both of you feel wrong for wanting what you want.
“Where Are You with Physical Intimacy and Desire?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.