My wife and I host a monthly dinner for our neighbors, but she thinks we should keep conversation light and fun while I want to create space for people to share what's really going on in their lives, and our guests can feel the tension between us.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are trying to offer hospitality while pulling their shared space in opposite directions.
“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.