My wife and I lost our baby at 20 weeks three months ago, and we're both changed people now but we keep trying to get back to who we were before instead of figuring out who we are now — and I think we're both terrified the other person won't love this new version.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are trying to resurrect a relationship that died alongside their dreams, instead of building something new from what remains.
“Where Are You with The gift of mortality — what loss teaches about being alive?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.