My wife and I moved across the country for my job and we both said we were excited but six months in we're both homesick and lonely and neither of us wants to be the one to say this might have been a mistake. We're supporting each other through something we're both privately questioning.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're both grieving something you thought you wanted while trying to protect each other from your own disappointment.
“Where Are You with Love in Later Life and Aging Partnership?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.