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Scenario

When couples discover fundamental differences in values after a health crisis

My wife and I thought we wanted the same things until her cancer scare last year, and now every decision feels loaded because we learned we have completely different ideas about what a life well-lived looks like. We're not fighting, but we're both quietly terrified that what we thought was alignment was just never being tested.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A brush with mortality revealed that your shared vision for life was built on assumptions you never examined together.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What grief reveals about what matters?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.