My wife and I thought we wanted the same things until her cancer scare last year, and now every decision feels loaded because we learned we have completely different ideas about what a life well-lived looks like. We're not fighting, but we're both quietly terrified that what we thought was alignment was just never being tested.
More people experience this than they realize.
A brush with mortality revealed that your shared vision for life was built on assumptions you never examined together.
“Where Are You with What grief reveals about what matters?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.