My wife wants to stay close with Ben's widow and kids but I feel like we're trying to replace him, and we can't talk about it without her thinking I don't care and me feeling like she cares too much.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are trying to love the same ghost and finding they cannot agree on how to tend what remains.
“Where Are You with The death of a friend?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.