Our adult son has been in and out of rehab for three years and my husband and I have completely different approaches - he wants to cut him off, I can't stop helping, and we're fighting about it constantly. We love the same person but we're destroying our marriage trying to save him.
More people experience this than they realize.
Loving someone with addiction often reveals irreconcilable differences between partners about the nature of help, hope, and self-preservation.
“Where Are You with The grief of addiction — losing yourself and others?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.