Our book club started as a way to connect over ideas but it's become this space where we perform our politics for each other instead of actually listening. We're all progressives but we're so afraid of saying the wrong thing that we've stopped saying anything real, and I miss the intimacy we used to have.
More people experience this than they realize.
The desire to belong can corrupt the very vulnerability that creates true belonging.
“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.