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Scenario

When chosen family dynamics become unbalanced during crisis

Our chosen family has been together for three years and lately two of us have been going through major life changes that are taking up all the emotional bandwidth while the rest of us feel like we're just supporting and never being supported. We all still love each other but the balance feels completely off and no one wants to be the person who says they need more attention when others are genuinely struggling.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group that formed around mutual care is discovering that real life doesn't distribute need equally.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Chosen Family?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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