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When friend groups face unequal intimacy and unspoken hierarchies

Our friend group has been getting together for years but we've never really talked about the fact that we all love Sarah differently — some of us are closer to her, some feel left out, and there's this unspoken hierarchy that's starting to hurt people. We all care about each other but we don't know how to talk about the inequality in our love without destroying what we have.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are discovering that love within a group creates inevitable inequalities that threaten the group's survival.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The Examined Love?”

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