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How friend groups navigate enabling and boundaries

Our friend group has one person who always needs to be taken care of and we've all enabled it for years because we love them, but now some of us are burning out and others think we're being cruel and it's splitting us apart.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group's shared love has become a shared burden that reveals different capacities for care and different definitions of loyalty.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Patterns You Bring to Love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.