Our friend group has this running joke about everyone's love languages, but I've started noticing how we use it to excuse not really showing up for each other — like 'oh, Sarah's not a words person' when someone needs encouragement. We've made it a way to avoid actually learning how to love each other better.
More people experience this than they realize.
What began as a tool for understanding has become permission to stay comfortable in your limitations.
“Where Are You with The love languages — examined critically?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.