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Scenario

When friend groups become performative on social platforms

Our friend group has this text thread that used to be fun but now it's where we all perform being okay when most of us are actually struggling, and no one wants to be the person who brings down the vibe. We used to share real things with each other but somewhere along the way we started curating even our closest friendships and now I don't know how to get back to being honest without seeming like I'm breaking some unspoken rule.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pressure to maintain an upbeat digital presence has infected intimate friendships, creating a shared loneliness disguised as connection.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love in the digital age?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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