Periagoge
Scenario

When hookups within friend groups create lasting tension

Our friend group of six has been tight since grad school, but two of us hooked up last year and it ended messily, and now every group hangout has this underlying tension. We all miss how easy things used to be but nobody wants to address the elephant in the room.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A community is being held hostage by an unspoken wound that everyone can feel but no one wants to name.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African Ubuntu Love and Kinship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.