Our friend group planned a big trip together and two of us secretly decided we couldn't afford it but instead of saying anything we just started making excuses and being flaky about planning, and now the others are frustrated and we're embarrassed and the whole thing feels ruined.
More people experience this than they realize.
Social shame around financial limitations can poison group dynamics through avoidance and dishonesty.
“Where Are You with Trust and Fidelity?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.