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When friend groups struggle with uneven closeness after major transitions

Our friend group used to be inseparable but since college ended, some of us have stayed close while others have drifted, and now when we do get together there's this weird tension between the people who kept up and the people who didn't. Nobody wants to address it directly but it's affecting everything.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Time and distance reveal that not all love grows at the same pace, leaving some hearts closer and others wondering where they still belong.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Family-of-origin patterns in adult love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.