Our friend group used to be so close but after Jake died two years ago, some of us want to keep his memory alive in everything we do and others just want to move forward, and now we barely see each other because being together feels like choosing sides about how to love someone who's gone.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief has fractured a circle of love because honoring the dead and loving the living require different things from different people.
“Where Are You with What we learn from grief about love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.