Our friends keep getting divorced and my partner and I find ourselves analyzing every separation like it's a cautionary tale, but it's making us hypervigilant about our own relationship in ways that don't feel healthy.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are letting others' relationship failures create preemptive fear rather than intentional strengthening of their own bond.
“Where Are You with Marriage as Institution and Lived Experience?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.