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Scenario

When polyamorous groups face challenges with hierarchy and new partners

Our triad worked beautifully for two years until one of us started dating someone new outside the relationship, and now the rest of us are realizing we have unexamined assumptions about hierarchy and inclusion that are making everyone feel either restricted or abandoned.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A multi-partner relationship is confronting how adding new connections exposes unspoken assumptions about priority and belonging.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Polyamory and non-monogamy examined?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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