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When polyamorous groups face challenges with hierarchy and new partners

Our triad worked beautifully for two years until one of us started dating someone new outside the relationship, and now the rest of us are realizing we have unexamined assumptions about hierarchy and inclusion that are making everyone feel either restricted or abandoned.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A multi-partner relationship is confronting how adding new connections exposes unspoken assumptions about priority and belonging.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Polyamory and non-monogamy examined?”

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