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When friend groups disagree on how to support someone in crisis

Three of us have been best friends since college and one friend has been going through a really dark time, but the other friend and I have different ideas about how to help and it's creating tension between us right when our struggling friend needs us most.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love for the same person can manifest in incompatible forms of care, fracturing the very support system that person needs.

Ideas that help explain it
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