Three of us have been close friends since college and we used to share everything - our dreams, our wild plans, our hunger for adventure - but now we're all in different life phases and I can feel us wanting different things from our friendship itself. When we get together it's like we're all performing some version of who we used to be instead of figuring out who we want to be together now.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your shared desires for the friendship have evolved in different directions, leaving you all uncertain about what intimacy looks like now.
“Where Are You with Desire and its changes over time?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.