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Scenario

When friend groups outgrow their original dynamic and desire different connections

Three of us have been close friends since college and we used to share everything - our dreams, our wild plans, our hunger for adventure - but now we're all in different life phases and I can feel us wanting different things from our friendship itself. When we get together it's like we're all performing some version of who we used to be instead of figuring out who we want to be together now.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your shared desires for the friendship have evolved in different directions, leaving you all uncertain about what intimacy looks like now.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Desire and its changes over time?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.