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When couples struggle to rebuild intimacy after a major fight

We had the biggest fight of our relationship three weeks ago and we both said we forgive each other but there's this careful distance between us now, like we're both protecting ourselves from it happening again. Neither of us knows how to get back to feeling safe with each other.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The tender work of repair requires risking the very vulnerability that was wounded.

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