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When couples lose spontaneity in long-term relationships

We've been together for seven years and we know each other's bodies like a map we've memorized, but lately when we touch it feels like we're both performing a dance we learned too well. The intimacy is there but the surprise is gone and neither of us knows how to talk about wanting something we can't name.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The deepest knowing can sometimes create a prison of predictability that threatens the very aliveness that love requires.

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“Where Are You with The Examined Love?”

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