Periagoge
Scenario

How long marriages can erase your individual identity without you noticing

Before my divorce I was half of a couple for twelve years and now I do not remember how to be just me or what I even like when no one else is watching.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Partnership that begins as completion gradually becomes substitution, leaving you hollowed out when the other half departs.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost identity — who you were before?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.