During shiva people kept bringing food but I'm diabetic and everything was cake and bagels and I felt ungrateful complaining about kindness when I'm supposed to be focused on mourning.
More people experience this than they realize.
Care that misses its mark can create additional burden disguised as blessing.
“Where Are You with Jewish mourning — shiva shloshim yahrzeit?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.