Every relationship I have follows the same script - intense connection, moving in together, slow death of mystery and attraction - and I don't know how to love someone without consuming them.
More people experience this than they realize.
Pattern of romantic engulfment destroys the separateness necessary for sustained attraction, revealing destructive aspects of possessive love.
“Where Are You with The philosophy of love — from Plato to contemporary?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.