Every time I try to slow things down or create space he threatens to hurt himself and I don't know what's real crisis and what's manipulation.
More people experience this than they realize.
The threat of self-destruction can hold your autonomy hostage while making you feel responsible for another person's wellbeing.
“Where Are You with Love bombing and manipulation?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.