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How to Handle Intense Jealousy About Your Partner's Ex

Every time my boyfriend mentions his ex-girlfriend I feel like I've been punched in the stomach and I hate how jealous I get.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The mention of past love activates a primal fear of replacement that transforms retroactive jealousy into present-moment torture.

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