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Scenario

How to Stop Being a Compulsive Fixer in Relationships

Every time my girlfriend cries I feel this overwhelming urge to fix it immediately and I think it's making everything worse.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The discomfort with another's pain becomes so intense that rushing to solutions bypasses the healing that lives in being witnessed.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

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