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When You Threaten to Leave During Arguments

Every time we fight I threaten to leave even though I do not want to, and I can see it is destroying his trust in me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The impulse to flee conflict recreates the very abandonment you fear most.

Worth thinking about

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