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Scenario

When your partner uses threats of leaving to win arguments

Every time we fight my husband threatens to leave and I end up apologizing for things that weren't my fault just to make him stay

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love becomes hostage negotiation when the threat of abandonment is weaponized to avoid genuine resolution.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Boundaries in Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.