Every time we fight my partner with BPD threatens to leave and I'm exhausted from never knowing if we're actually breaking up or if this is just how they process conflict.
More people experience this than they realize.
Living with the constant threat of abandonment creates a trauma bond that mimics love but feels like drowning.
“Where Are You with Love & Neurodivergence?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.