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Scenario

Why You Sabotage Relationships When They Get Serious

Every time we get close to talking about moving in together I find myself picking fights about stupid things like how he loads the dishwasher.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intimacy feels like a threat to survival, so the psyche creates distance through conflict when love gets too real.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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