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Why You Sabotage Relationships When They Get Serious

Every time we get close to talking about moving in together I find myself picking fights about stupid things like how he loads the dishwasher.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intimacy feels like a threat to survival, so the psyche creates distance through conflict when love gets too real.

Ideas that help explain it
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